“I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.”— Carl Jung
We don’t have to be victims of what we can’t control. Instead, we can choose to be the victor of what we can control. It can be easy to fall into a trap of always lamenting about the unpleasant events in one’s life. It is not easy to pull one’s self out of such a trap, but the good news is that is not impossible. It is not impossible to find another way or find an alternative or to adopt a new perspective. Thinking differently is the key of becoming victor.