It’s all right to feel a little pressure when we’re faced with a challenge to complete a task. A little pressure can be motivating especially when there is a deadline we have to meet. It is better to set deadlines for ourselves because if we don’t, then nothing will get done. We don’t have to look at deadlines as punishment but as encouragement. When we set deadlines we’re forced to use our time most effectively instead of procrastinating and waiting to the last minutes to do it. Waiting to the last minutes is just putting unnecessary pressure on us while trying to complete 85 percent of the work in short amount of time. Some of us thrive on this kind of pressure and like it. However, the anticipation of wondering whether or not to start today or tomorrow can be agonizing.
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Reward And Peace
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“Peace is its own reward.” − Mahatma Gandhi
When we’re at peace, there is no inner conflict. When we’re at peace, everything seems quiet. When we’re at peace, time seems to slow down. When we’re at peace, we have forgiven others that have wronged us. When we’re at peace, we no longer keep hatred inside of us. When we’re at peace, we have no problems accepting others and ourselves. When we’re at peace, we live without worries. When we’re at peace, tomorrow isn’t that important to us anymore. When we’re at peace, we experience calmness while every things else around us is chaotic. Peace enjoys the company of peace. Peace is rewarding for everyone.
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Our Dreams
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We don’t have to give up on our dreams. It is not too late to dream and do something worthwhile in our lives. So whatever it is we can start now. We hesitate to actually do something because it provokes anxiety in us created by our fear of the unknown. We want to anticipate what may go wrong. We don’t want to lose our livelihood. We know this may change the rest of our life. We know things will not be the same. It is all right to dream, but also it is all right to make it real; that’s our goal.
Communication
Communication is about sharing with each other our experiences and ideas. As human, we have two layers of communications— verbal and nonverbal. It is just as important to communicate with words as it is important how we say it with words. Communication brings people together. Communication saves lives; we can warn each other of danger. When we are in need, we ask for it. This is communicating a request. Communication keeps a civilization moving everyday. We depend on communication in all aspects of our lives. We can’t survive without it. We learn things through communication. We get our news through the vehicle of communication.
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Curiosity and Expansion
Curiosity is the beginning of learning something new while stimulating the mind. Our minds get bored easily when we’re not challenged in learning something or concentrating on something that requires our attention. Curiosity can lead to new information and knowledge that can help us in some way. Curiosity is learning something positive that we didn’t know about ourselves. It is a delightful thing to know that we can tap into our inner resources to use to break up rigid and old ideas which in turn creates into new ideas that expands our thinking. We have more choices when we expand our minds.
Take Our Own Action
We are responsible for our own action. No one can force us to do anything we don’t want to do. Therefore, we cannot blame another for our actions. We make everyday decisions on what we’re going to wear today, what we’re going to eat for lunch, etc. Blaming others is just an easy way out to avoid responsibility. When we take on responsibility, we have conquered a part of us. Responsibility can lead to freedom. We’re free to take on the day without worrying about what others think. Instead, we’re doing something that we like and feeling self-worth along the way.
The Moments Are Now
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Silence nurtures the soul. If we find a quiet place, and just let our minds wander while we sit, we can begin restoring and renewing our soul. A clear mind can bring peace and harmony. When this happens, we become more in the present. We no longer look back in the past nor look into the future. This is when we’re truly experiencing life and we are at ease with the external world and ourselves because we are experiencing the moment. This moment is the most important thing we’re doing now. We’re most centered when we’re in the now.
Wisdom In Our Experiences
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If we want to find wisdom, we can look for it within our experiences. Gaining knowledge by reading a book and applying knowledge from books in our everyday situation are two different things. Applying knowledge requires us to do something. Once we begin to apply what we’ve learned, then we set out to see what works and what doesn’t work. This is what we called wisdom. Most of us know that, but taking actions on what we’ve learned isn’t easy because it feels counter intuitive to what we’re familiar with. Some things we’ve learned won’t apply but those that do, is a keeper.
Complete One Things Today
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When we complete things we feel a sense of relief and satisfaction. When things are incomplete we may experience guilt and are unsatisfied and disappointed with ourselves. Just as gravity pulls us toward the ground, we will always have some sort of resistance in everything we do. This is the nature of the beast. As we walk up a hill, we will feel pressure, and the weight of our body as we take each step. Sometimes, this is a hard thing to accept that things we do will feel uncomfortable. But things do get easier and our mind has a way to find a better way to complete things.
What Do You Know Is Certain?
What we know is certain are that we’re alive. What we know is certain are that we get hungry and/or thirsty. What we know is certain is that we want to know about life. What we know is certain is that there are a lot of uncertainties. What we know is certain are that change is constant. What we know is certain are that we experience pain. What we know is certain are that we experience joy. What we know is certain is that we’re born, we live, then we die. What we know is certain is that it rains, snows, the wind blows and the sun shines.
Enjoy Yourself
When we feel comfortable about ourselves, it is easier to accept those around us who are different from us. Although we are different in many ways, we also have many things in common. We all have a desire for friendships and love. We all want our dreams to come true. We all want to seek adventures and try new things. We hope for a better world for our children. We all want security and safety in our own homes. We enjoy eating our favorite foods among friends or family.
When There Is Difficult, There is Growth
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When we are having a hard time, it’s an opportunity for growth. When life seems unfair, it is an opportunity to comfort others. When we fall down, it is an opportunity to get up and even help others up. When it rains and thunders, it is an opportunity to look for rainbows. When it gets dark, it is an opportunity to see the stars. When we see disaster, it is an opportunity to give in some way. When we get tired, it is an opportunity to rest. When we don’t understand, it is an opportunity to learn. When things are chaotic, it is an opportunity to seek peace from within.
What’s Stopping You?
What ever we’re doing or not doing is all based on a belief system. It is no coincident that our actions are based on a belief system that we use everyday. We no longer think about what we need to do next because most of our actions are made unconsciously. But when we first learn something new our actions were made consciously and deliberately. We may now wonder why we struggle to obtain our goals or procrastinate at the last minute to start doing what we set out to do couple months earlier. In order words, what is stopping us from obtaining our goals? What are the beliefs that we’re saying to ourselves is somehow stopping us from doing what we want for our lives? These are questions that we ask ourselves.
Unreal Fear
Yesterday was Halloween. How come we like to be scared on Halloween? It is the adrenaline rush we get from being scared. In the context of Halloween we allow ourselves to enjoy the experience of being scared. But when it comes to life’s fears, we create internal images in our head that makes us frighten. Yes, we create a lot our own fears because we want to control the outcome of the event that’s frightening us. Instead we can see that those fears are created by the mind and are not real.
When You Are Feeling Pressure, Relax
When we’re feeling pressure to rush things along, it is time to sit back and relax. It is important that we pace ourselves to keep from being overwhelmed. We need to be at our best performance if we want to be effective in what we’re doing. When we’re performing at our best, then we are making progress or producing something that we will feel satisfied at the end. Feeling pressure makes it difficult to stay focused. Being unfocused will not help us at all. Relaxing is about taking a break. When we’re taking a break from the pressures, we are renewing ourselves and clearing up our minds.
Life Gets Better By Change
“Your life doesn’t get better by chance, it gets better by change.” ~ Jim Rohm
If we aren’t satisfied with the way things are going in our life, then change is essential. A change can be a change in our attitude or a change in the way we see our situation can make a big difference in how we deal with things. Action creates change in us. A change doesn’t have to be big; we can start changing small things that will make a significant difference in our life. If we continue on the path of change, then a complete transformation is inevitable.
A Quick Look Back
We have little more than two months left of 2013. It is not too late to end our year with a blast. We still have time to finish up some of our projects for this year or at least finish up one major project. It is also a good time to begin to look back on what we have accomplished and what things we still need to work on. But let us not look back for too long, we just need to look back just enough to get some inspiration to continue forward in the work we’re doing today.
Nothing Is Free
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There is no such thing as a free lunch. What was given freely is never without a cost. In anything we do requires from us time and effort. So nothing is free in life. When we are given a gift or a present, the person who gave us the gift or present took the time to think about what kind of gift we might like, and took the effort to purchase the gift with their hard earned money. Nothing we have received and/or given away is free, but everything is merited.
Finding Meaning
Meaning is accumulations of our experiences. Meaning is based on what we value in our lives. In our experiences we find out about what are our likes and dislikes. Our likes and our dislikes are our filters to help us along through our experiences. It is through our filters that we interpret our experiences. We are constantly receiving inputs from our senses and we are constantly creating meaning based on our filters that we have created over the years.
Feeling Belonged
We all want to relate to one another. We don’t want to feel alone or left out in any social situation. We want to feel belong even though we may have nothing in common with a group. Since we’re unique people, we each can bring something into a social situation. We all can contribute to a group. Since we experience things everyday of our lives, we can bring up a lot of information from our own experiences and share them with one another. Exchanging experience is another way of relating and getting to know one another better than if we just not talk at all. Conversing with one another is the best medicine to feel like we belong.






















